The annual Transgender Day of Remembrance took place on November 20, 2025, in Saratoga Springs, New York, bringing together community members to honor the lives of transgender and nonbinary individuals lost to violence and suicide. This solemn event featured the reading of 64 names, each representing a life cut short, alongside a candlelight vigil and heartfelt performances.
Community members gathered at the Wyckoff Center on the Skidmore College campus, a venue chosen for its commitment to fostering inclusivity and connection. Mariel Martin, the center’s director, emphasized the importance of creating spaces that affirm and uplift all identities. “The Wyckoff Center is a space for cross-cultural communication and community engagement,” Martin stated, highlighting its role in supporting the wider Saratoga community.
During the ceremony, attendees participated in a call-and-response segment, which encouraged reflection on the shared experiences of loss and resilience. Rauch Passaro, a participant, expressed gratitude for the gathering, noting, “These times are undeniably scary… but it’s events like this that really underline how these are the things that bind us.” Passaro hopes that attendees leave with greater understanding and a desire to connect with one another.
The ceremony included readings from Rabbi Illana Symons of Temple Sinai and Rev. Jo Urrriola-Shonewolf of Saratoga United Methodist Church, who offered words of comfort and support. Musical performances featured songs such as “Whisper” and “Take Me Down to the Water’s Edge” by Trace Ellis, further enhancing the emotional atmosphere of remembrance.
Cindy Swadba, a volunteer with Saratoga Pride, shared the organization’s commitment to holding this event annually. Inspired by a former speaker, Swadba explained that the ceremony serves not only as a memorial but also as an educational opportunity. “We’re talking about what it means to be transgender,” she noted, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the struggles faced by transgender and nonbinary individuals.
The Transgender Day of Remembrance has been observed internationally since 1999, and Saratoga Springs has hosted its own event for the past six years. Swadba expressed hope that attendees would share their experiences and advocate for the transgender community in their personal circles. “I hope they take away a new understanding and a new peace,” she said.
As the ceremony concluded, community members left with renewed resolve to support one another and honor the memories of those lost. The event stands as a poignant reminder of the ongoing challenges faced by the transgender community, while also highlighting the strength found in unity and compassion.
For further information about the Transgender Day of Remembrance and to view the list of names read during the ceremony, visit https://tdor.translivesmatter.info.
