Gretchen Noah, a dedicated community advocate and mother of five, passed away on December 31, 2023, at the age of 55. Her sudden departure has left a profound impact on those who knew her in Fargo, North Dakota, and beyond. Known for her unwavering positivity and commitment to supporting families, Gretchen’s life was a testament to love and resilience.
Gretchen’s journey began years ago when she connected with fellow mothers in the community, including the author of this tribute, during the demanding early days of motherhood. Despite life taking them on different paths, the bonds formed during those times remained strong. Gretchen was well-known for her role at Noah Coffee Co., where she balanced serving coffee while caring for her children, all while maintaining her signature smile.
Advocacy Born from Love
Her commitment to her family intensified when her only son, Markie, was diagnosed with Smith-Lemli-Opitz syndrome (SLOS), a rare genetic disorder that can cause developmental delays and physical malformations. In response to this challenge, Gretchen transformed her personal struggle into a passionate advocacy, supporting not only Markie but also countless other families facing similar hardships through the Smith-Lemli-Opitz Foundation.
Gretchen’s advocacy work brought hope and resources to many families worldwide. Her dedication illuminated the lives of those grappling with the impacts of SLOS, showcasing her belief in the strength of community and love. The news of her own diagnosis this past summer was met with disbelief and sorrow by those who admired her tenacity in advocating for others.
Remembering Gretchen’s Legacy
To honor her memory, friends and family gathered at Sts. Anne & Joachim Church in Fargo for her funeral service. The church was adorned with festive decorations, including evergreens and large Christmas wreaths, reflective of the season that Gretchen cherished. Her sister-in-law, Susan Noah, read from Wisdom 3:1-9, providing comfort to those present with the reminder that “the souls of the righteous are in the hands of God.”
Father Luke’s message resonated with attendees, affirming that Gretchen now rests in the company of saints. An emotional highlight of the service came when Markie, now a young man, performed “Ave Maria,” a moment that encapsulated the love and sacrifice Gretchen had dedicated to his life and well-being. As the congregation reflected quietly, the profound connection between mother and son became palpable, illustrating the depth of her influence.
As the service concluded, many reflected on the incredible legacy left by Gretchen Noah. Her life exemplified the power of love, community, and advocacy, inspiring those around her to carry forward her mission of compassion and support. As she is remembered, it is clear that her spirit will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of those she touched. Rest in peace, Gretchen; your mission was completed, and your impact will endure.
