Recent incidents of dating violence have underscored the pressing need for safety and privacy measures in the pursuit of romantic relationships, particularly through online platforms. A tragic shooting in northwest Dallas last week resulted in one woman’s death and left her husband injured after they arranged to meet a man through Facebook Dating.
Jan Langbein, the chief executive officer of Genesis Women’s Shelter & Support, emphasized the changes in the dating landscape, noting that “today’s dating landscape is vastly different than it once was, with digital dating being the new way many people pursue romantic relationships.” While online platforms offer opportunities to connect with new people, safety must remain a top priority.
Tiffany Tate, the chief executive officer of The Family Place, echoed this sentiment, stating, “Your safety should always come first. If you feel unsafe or experience harassment, remember you are not alone.”
Given the rise in online dating, it is crucial for individuals to be aware of safety and privacy considerations when creating profiles and meeting potential partners.
Understanding the Risks of Online Dating
According to the Mozilla Foundation, approximately 80% of dating apps share or sell users’ personal information for advertising purposes. Furthermore, about one-quarter of these apps collect metadata related to the content users share, such as the date, time, and location where photos or videos are taken. Tate cautioned, “Dating apps and platforms can sometimes be misused to facilitate harm, including stalking, harassment, and even violence.”
Predators can take advantage of these platforms to access personal information, initiate unwanted contact, or deceive individuals into dangerous situations. “People can curate exactly how they want others to perceive them,” Langbein explained. “For some that may mean showing only the highlights and best parts of themselves. For others, that may mean using false information or photographs to deceive or trick others.”
The ability to mask harmful behaviors while developing a romantic connection can lead to dangerous outcomes. Therefore, individuals must approach online dating with caution and remain vigilant.
Implementing Safety Measures
Taking steps to protect oneself is just as essential when creating and maintaining a dating profile as it is when meeting someone in person. The Texas Internet Dating Safety Act, implemented in 2011, requires dating apps and websites to provide safety disclosure statements to users, outlining measures designed to enhance awareness of safer online dating practices. Dating service providers that fail to comply risk a civil penalty of up to $250.
To support users, many dating services offer resources and safety disclosures. The Genesis helpline operates 24/7, allowing individuals to discuss red flags, plan safe dates, and seek services. This free and confidential helpline can be reached by calling or texting 214-946-4357. Similarly, The Family Place provides assistance through their 24-hour crisis hotline, available in both English and Spanish at 214-941-1991.
As online dating becomes increasingly prevalent, prioritizing safety and privacy is crucial for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape. By remaining aware of potential risks and utilizing available resources, individuals can foster safer romantic experiences.
