The Pentagon has contacted a Toronto-based sex toy shop, Bonjibon, requesting that it cease sending adult products to military personnel stationed at a naval base in Bahrain. The strange situation unfolded when cofounder Grace Bennett opened two returned packages containing butt plugs, along with letters from the Pentagon addressing the matter.
According to CTV News, the letters indicated that “pornographic materials or devices” are prohibited from being sent to Bahrain, a conservative Middle Eastern nation. Intriguingly, Bennett mentioned that her store does not ship to Bahrain due to local laws, leading her to suspect that someone may have forwarded the packages to Navy personnel stationed there.
Shipping Misunderstanding Unraveled
Bennett shared her surprise at the discovery, explaining, “We didn’t even know it (the product) was going to Bahrain until it came back to us months later, and it just kind of unraveled this whole… hilarious moment.” She expressed amusement over the situation but also highlighted a significant issue: the juxtaposition of military personnel ordering sex toys without understanding the legal restrictions in their host country.
The Pentagon’s letters seemingly carried an accusatory tone, prompting Bennett to respond that the issue was “a you problem.” She emphasized the need for individuals to be aware of the regulations governing the items they order, especially when stationed abroad. The Pentagon’s Transportation Command has specific guidelines that include a list of prohibited items for military personnel in Bahrain, which details that “pornographic material” is included among these items.
Regulatory Framework and Cultural Sensitivities
The Naval Supply Systems Command’s “Bahrain Moving Tips” leaflet warns against bringing or shipping any pornographic material, alcohol, and certain foodstuffs into the country. It also notes that “100 percent of all shipments are x-rayed by Bahrain customs,” with any confiscated items subject to destruction.
While the situation has sparked laughter, it also underscores a serious cultural taboo surrounding sexuality in the U.S. military. Issues of sexual violence and discussions surrounding gender identity remain contentious topics within military circles.
Despite the humorous aspect of the situation, Bennett expressed disappointment that her customers did not receive their orders. “There’s many layers of hilarity to this that we can all just poke fun at, and the situation is quite funny, while at the same time, I genuinely want everyone — I’m sad that they didn’t get their order,” she noted.
As this unusual incident illustrates, navigating the complexities of cultural norms and regulations is crucial for individuals serving in foreign countries, particularly in conservative regions like Bahrain.
