New insights from Dear Abby reveal pressing concerns among millennials about leading a child-free life while grappling with the realities of aging. A 30-something reader, known as Worried Millennial, has raised alarms about potential loneliness and lack of care in old age, prompting immediate advice from the beloved advice column.
In her response, Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, emphasized that relying on children for future care is not a guaranteed safety net. “Having a child hoping it will guarantee that you will have someone to care for you in your old age is not old age insurance,” she stated. This critical advice comes as many millennials face escalating costs, social injustice, and climate concerns, making the decision to remain child-free increasingly common.
In a separate, equally urgent query, a mother from Texas, identified as Exasperated Mom, expressed frustration over her adult son’s lack of responsibility. The 20-year-old lives at home without contributing financially, even after moving in his girlfriend and a dog—compounding the issue. The mother seeks guidance on how to address his behavior without escalating tensions.
Phillips advised the mother to take decisive action. “If the answer is no, then it’s time you and your husband finally assert yourselves,” she urged. She recommended setting a clear deadline for her son to move out, emphasizing that it’s crucial for both his development and the peace of the household.
As concerns about mental health and dependency rise among young adults, these letters underline the urgent discussions surrounding family dynamics, personal responsibility, and the implications of living arrangements in modern society.
The conversation surrounding these issues is gaining momentum, particularly as societal norms shift and new generations navigate their futures in unprecedented ways. For those seeking more insights, the full Dear Abby column can be accessed at www.DearAbby.com.
This evolving dialogue is not just about personal choices but reflects broader societal trends that require urgent attention and discussion. Stay tuned for updates on how these conversations develop and impact young adults today.
